Families, those have only one child have less issues with this topic… But, those who have more than one child, there start the problem…
In one way, it’s very advantageous. They have someone to play, fight, share, love, learn, etc…. The fight I mentioned is a healthy fight (affectionate one). But, when discussing about the second way, it’s very problematic…
Parents have to tell their first child, about the second one in a very good way… From the very beginning, they should tell that it’s your baby sis/bro… You have to take care of them…
When they handle harshly, please don’t scold/beat them. This will create a negative impact about their bro/sis… Explain them softly, that by their doing, baby gets hurt. So that, they won’t do it again…
Also, tell the second one, about the same things. So that, their bond will grew much stronger. Don’t ever compare them between each other. If one study well, then just say that, if u both gets good score, then you will receive a special gift from us…..
Its all in our hands, in our way of approach….
Very true kalai! There's always bond between siblings... only we realize later even we see each other as enemies while growing. hehe... me and my sister where just like that and have did many catfights sometime ago... and now well understood each other to share like a best friends. she was my console when i got breakup. I love her a lot!
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Very nice post and right of approach. Comparison is a great mistake done by parents, and they need to understand that one can’t be same like another.
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Agree with your advice, Kalai :) I was the youngest child in my family but this post made me think about how the older one might have felt when I came along :) We fought a lot and now there is no relationship at all which is really sad ~ maybe we should have kept on fighting, better than nothing? :D
ReplyDeleteIndeed couldn't agree with you more...these days bonding among siblings is a big issue and its left to the parents to create the atmosphere of understanding and sharing right from the very beginning.
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Madrassi,
ReplyDeleteThanks buddy... u r rite...
nice to know abot ur sis...
me & my bro too had fought many times & it ends when we get nice beatings from mom & dad...
whatever it is, we will talk within 5 minutes...
Lina,
Thanks Lina..
Jeevan,
Yeah, wat u have said is exactly true buddy...
Marinela Reka,
Thank u so much 4 ur visit buddy...
Fiona,
Thanks Fiona... i 2 felt sad 4 u...
Kalyan,
Yes Kalyan... dats wat i said.. its all in parents way of approach...
Babli,
Thanks Babli..
Wish u d same buddy...